Somewhere along the line, the idea of learning how to get better with women became a bad phrase. But when you really look at the situation, I think most people would agree that most girls who are out a bar or club are there to be picked up.
It is much more complicated nowadays. There are no set rituals or traditions and almost by default the bar and club scene has become the place in America where singles most frequently meet up. Or at least attempt to meet up. But it isn’t the most efficient or effective method, either.
It really is a crap shoot when you turn up at a bar or club. Even if you see someone who strikes your fancy, what are the odds going to be that you have anything whatsoever in common? That’s probably why some singles think it is so hard to meet someone.
Of course the internet is in the process of revolutionizing the dating and mating ritual. Picking up women online actually makes much more sense. The ability to filter out single women by what they look like, their age, what their interests and values are and so on, is golden. It saves much time, energy and money. It is the first dating ritual to be really different in one hundred years.
By using an online dating service, you can also get to know someone a bit before you ever set sights on them in person. The reason this is so interesting is because an attraction beyond physical attraction has a chance to develop.
Of course, it always takes meeting in person to determine whether the chemistry is there as well. But in my opinion, this determination of compatibility before chemistry kicks in can save you heartache in the long run.
You see usually it works the opposite. The power of chemical attraction and pheromones makes you think that you are compatible in every way. That is how it is supposed to feel. Nature wants us to feel these strong urges toward one another so we will procreate. But it is meant to be short lived. After some offspring are produced, mother nature doesn’t really care if we actually get along with our partners. And when the sparks die down, we often find we have nothing else in common.
But if you determine you are compatible before you even meet in person and then meet in person and the sparks fly, you are ahead of the game. You have almost taken a short cut to figuring out how you will survive the relationship after the infatuation is over. This is revolutionary. Meeting women online or through a matchmaker service or something similar truly is the way to go.