While women don’t need a guy with movie-star looks, they are going to pay attention to how you look. If you truly want to know how to impress a girl you must make sure that you are covering the bases in your appearance. You, surprisingly enough want to start with your shoes.
You wouldn’t think that something as utilitarian as shoes would matter when it comes to learning this, but trust me that women look at your clodhoppers. That is why you need to make sure they are clean and polished and the best you can afford.
As one of my friends says, “If you’re shoes don’t look good, the woman knows your toilet in your home is disgusting and your hygiene maybe not so great.”
So, first off, look at your clothing budget money and make sure that a large portion of it is going toward a decent pair of shoes. Make sure they are designer but that they are not trendy so they can last for at least five years, if not more. Then once you get them, keep them immaculate, polished and re-soled regularly.
The next step is to take a good look at your hygiene.
I’m talking everything, from your nose and ear hairs to your underarms and especially fingernail and toenails. Check in every day to make sure look as clean and neat as you can, especially taking in the small details.
As far as clothes, find an attractive sales clerk and ask his or her opinion on what shirt and jeans look best on you. You want the best fitting and most attractive colors for you out there. Spend a little money on quality over quantity. Better to have one great shirt over five ugly, ill-fitting ones.
Next think about some accessories that add a little personality, such as a colorful cashmere scarf or unique, conversation attention getting piece of jewelry.
Next thing to master is I want you to look at how you walk, sit and stand. This can convey poise and confidence without saying a word. When you stand, I want you to spread your arms and take up as much space as possible. Make sure you have impeccable posture, it will give you a ton of charisma and will make you look 10 pounds lighter.
Here’s another secret
I want you to go out with the intent of not picking up women. Now bear with me here. I want the ultimate goal of your night out to be having a great time with your friends. To do this, you need to make sure you are picking a fun activity and picking fun people to hang out with while you do it. So go out and have fun. Laugh and enjoy yourself. Also make sure you flirt with everyone, but really concentrate on attracting a woman who is your type. Do this and you will be surprised what will happen. You will be like a magnet for girls.
They will be drawn to you like bees to honey. They will see that you are there having a blast and that you really aren’t that concerned with getting chicks. By doing this, you are non-threatening and extremely attractive. Sure, you can smile at the girls in the room, but make it clear it is a secondary motive of why you are out. You will most likely walk out with one of those girls.
So if you take a little extra time and effort in your experience, exude confidence and are out there to have fun, it will help you to impress a girl, which will eventually lead to taking her home.