Twas the night before Christmas…
And all through your house, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.
As you turn and toss in bed this Christmas eve and think to yourself, Does Santa have a woman for me under the tree? One in lingerie, and looking hot, one looking sexy and waiting for a great night of action?
Now let’s dial it back a couple weeks. Back to the present. You’ve got a few weeks before Christmas, and you’re out desperately looking for that date.
Here’s the deal, guys. It doesn’t matter whether or not you get a date before Christmas. It’s not important. It’s not like Christmas is some sort of milestone. “I must have a date before Christmas!”
Here’s a better goal: figure out why you’re not getting dates right now, and actually come up with an action plan so you can get dates in the new year. Ask yourself honestly at this end of the year what’s going on, and figure out why you’re not getting these dates you want.
Are you really shy? You’re not approaching enough women? Are you not being friendly enough? Are you going to all the wrong places? Are you not speaking to the women you’re most attracted to and just being afraid of them?
Really be honest with yourself. This is a great time of year to take personal inventory to find out why you’re not accomplishing your goals, why you’re not dating enough attractive women, and then come up with an action plan to go out and meet women in the New Year.
You’ve got to build your social skills up so that you can attract the women you want, this is a great time of year to actually build those social skills up.
Go shopping. Look at women. Ask what they’ve got in the bag, ask them what Santa’s going to get them for Christmas. I used to love saying that to women all the time. I’d walk around with a Santa cap on, I’d walk up to women, I’d look at them and say, “Alright, if I was Santa right now, what would you ask for and why?”
Then they’d tell me, and I’d say, “Well, is your boyfriend going to get you that?” Of course if they don’t have a boyfriend they would say No, because they never make up the imaginary boyfriend during this time of year.
So work on your social skills. Go out there and break out of that shyness during this time of year. People tend to be friendlier, people tend to be more open, and it’s a good opportunity for you to really go out there and meet new women everywhere.