Cock-Blocked By Girls Friend

QUESTION:

Not long ago I’ve been looking at the Dating Black Book and the Seduction Method. Great work man! Breaking the ice isn’t actually a dilemma for me, later on when reading your books.

What I don’t understand is I think I build a good deal of connection with the girls I’ve been talking to lately. I mean I say them how I’m into male and female interactions and from the questions I would seek advice from – which was the questions you inquired Kathy in the Advanced Coaching program – [and] if they would let me know anything and everything they wanted to see in a man…

The craziest situation happened to me at a bash. I was cock-blocked by this stunning girl’s companion. Her good friend was a lesbian, so I can’t imagine she would be jealous of her friend talking to me. She can simply distinguish that her friend was deep into the conversation with me, and would always jerk her off.

What would I do in that type of prevailing scenario?

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CARLOS XUMA’S ADVICE:

Obviously she can be considered jealous of her friend coming into to you. The lesbian chick was simply being defensive – she was jealous due to the fact that you happen to be hitting on the woman she was attracted to.

“Ohhhh YEAH! Girl-on-girl action!”

Don’t get so excited there, skeeter.

Infallibly, you should have figured to befriend the possible cock-blocker lesbian. (Wow, that’s gotta be the first time I’ve ever used that term.) Once you see that there’s a second woman in the mix, it is important for you to figure her fascination, too, or she’s going to draw the pin on your grenade and ruin your game.

So what do you do once you do all the right issues and you, still, find yourself blocked?

You have only one true choice – You have to do whatsoever you have to.

What? You think that’s too non-specific?

There’s a part of a recent movie I really want to share with you. The movie is entitled “The Last Kiss” and it stars Zach Braff (of “Scrubs” fame.) Zach is a great guy, and I loved “Garden State,” but this movie was the best example of the “chick flick.” Nonetheless, there’s usually something perfectly worth redeeming in these movies, a lesson that need to be taught.

I can find one sorts of nugget in this movie. The dad of the girlfriend talks to Zach about the infidelity and just how she won’t see him, and Zach asks the dad what to do to gain her back. “You do whatever you have to,” he bids. Meaning, it’s not WHAT you’ve done, it’s that you keep going until eventually you be a success. IF you genuinely want her back.

Well, long story short, Zach sleeps out on the veranda for a few days, and eventually she relents. I am not quite certain of the moral there except that if you irritate and continuously try hard enough, any kind of woman will overlook her self-respect and just take you back. Anyhow…

The message for you is this – In case there’s something you wish, you don’t permit ANYTHING at all to stop you. The greatest statement of total commitment is your labor to GET what it is you want. Hardly anything else can speak louder than that.

I know many guys that would say: “Man, I want a Lamborghini!” Yeah, sure, dude. What guy doesn’t long for a $200,000 sports car?

But how many of them would be willing to really WORK their asses off to make the money for that car?

Not that many. They don’t REALLY wish for that car. They’re perhaps only saying they’d like to have it if it doesn’t mean too much effort on their part. They’re tantalized by the probability; nonetheless inside their own head they’ve already figured that they’ll in no way actually have it.

Differentiate this with the guy who is able to actually DO what is necessary to acquire what he wants. The guy who stops and arranges a plan to obtain the things in life he desires. The man equipped with a strategy is the only one that consistently gets what he wishes.

IF he desires it bad enough.

And so when lesbian friend drags your girl away, will you let her? No, dude. You proceed right away in there with your knife clenched between your fangs… you duck down below the barbwire, and you stay clear of the landmines. You press on.

Just simply return to the woman and point out, “Hey, I realize we all didn’t get the opportunity to bond properly there and all, but I figured you were interesting. I knew that if I didn’t come over and at least get your number, I’d never forgive myself.”

You don’t give up.

You are persistent not because you come from a position of weakness and lack – rather from a position of desire and Alpha Vigor.