3 Steps to Consistent Responses Online

From the get-go, the odds are stacked against you: If a woman is half good looking, the chances are her inbox gets filled with 50 messages a day.

With all these guys begging for her attention, getting women to respond to your emails can be tough.

To make matters worse, online dating sometimes makes women jaded because they’re bombarded with one terrible message after another.

So where does this leave you?

If you’d like to be one of the few guys to get consistent responses from women online, let’s start by making sure you’re not one of those guys who send lame, boring, and insecure messages out to women…

If you ever open a conversation:

• With a compliment about her looks…

• Telling her to check out your profile…

• Trying to convince her that you’ve got a lot in common because you read her profile…

• Asking her to call you right away…

• Making any references to sex whatsoever…

…Stop all of that stuff IMMEDIATELY!

Okay…

I’m calm again…

And now that we’ve covered the bare minimum, I’m going to share…

3 Steps To Consistent Responses Online

These 3 steps are absolutely crucial to getting consistent responses from women online. If you’re struggling in this area, then you’re probably failing at one of these three steps:

Step 1 – Get Her Attention.

Think of an attractive woman’s inbox…

It’s filled with messages from strangers, and she is scanning the subject lines quickly to see if any of them sound interesting.

She simply does not have the time to read them all.

That’s why YOUR subject line should stand out over your competition.

Most subject lines are some variation of Hi, Hey, or Hey beautiful (I’m not kidding). You on the other hand, will write a subject line gets a woman curious enough to open your email.

You can do this with a cliffhanger.

If you’ve ever watched television, you’ve seen a million cliffhangers…

On a television show, a good cliffhanger starts with a suspenseful twist in the plot, but ends abruptly, forcing you to watch the next episode in order to know how the story will end…

Online, a good cliffhanger starts an interesting story in the subject line, which sparks her curiosity. If she wants to know how the story ends, she must open your message and read it.

An example would be, “You seem interesting but…” or “So let me get this straight…”

Step 2 – Break The Ice.

A good opening message “breaks the ice” (with a sledgehammer) within the first sentence or two…

First, read her profile and then, based on some information you got inside her profile, come up with a fun analogy, some witty humor, some teasing or a good challenge.

This also immediately sets you apart from other men in a woman’s mind, and positions you as an attractive man…

You don’t have to go overkill with the teasing.

You can say something simple like, “Wow, gotta respect a girl who can speak her mind. Tell me… are you this cocky in real life? Or is this just your technique for keeping the weirdo-loners at bay?”

Use whatever information you get from her profile, and use it in a way that demonstrates you’re screening her.

Step 3 – Use A Call To Action.

The whole point of sending her an initial message is to establish a good conversation, and get her to respond to you.

That’s why it’s always a good idea to end your messages with a question that makes her think that responding to it the obvious next step.

A good call to action is open ended – meaning that she must answer with more than just a word or two.

Don’t make her think too hard about the response (so no questions about physics), and ideally, your call to action should make her think about a fun fantasy.

Most women, for example, love traveling (or at least the idea of it).

So if a woman mentions in her profile that she likes to travel, you can end your email by saying, “I noticed that you like to travel, so tell me: If you woke up tomorrow with an all expense paid trip to travel anywhere you’d like, where would you go and what would you do?”

Of course, these 3 steps are just scratching the surface – there’s a whole bunch of other things that will make women want to respond to you like crazy!

You need to beef up your profile, and your photos… and once you get a conversation started, you’ve got to know what to say to get her to meet you in person FAST.